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		<description>If your reality isn’t matching your vision, then guess what?  it’s time to get honest.

Welcome to Tell Your Truth!—the no-fluff, no-excuses podcast for purpose-seeking professional women who are done playing small and ready to break the cycles of self-doubt, fear, overthinking, and procrastination that keep them stuck, questioning their worth, and delaying their dreams.

Hosted by Shamika Brown-Upshaw—Emmy-Award-winning Business Operations &amp; Program Management Director turned Spiritual Mindset &amp; Business Coach and Founder of Spark Life Coaching &amp; Business Planning—on a mission to help women stop negotiating with their potential and start creating the life that they say they want.

Every week, we dig deep into mindset, faith, and personal power with raw, unfiltered conversations and real, actionable strategies that move you from stuck to unstoppable. We’re exposing the lies you tell yourself, challenging the beliefs that have been controlling your choices, and giving you the tools to finally move your life and business forward—with confidence, clarity, and power.

Because here’s the truth—nothing changes if you don’t.

This isn’t just about feel-good motivation though—it’s about real transformation. It’s about shifting out of the habits, mindsets, and choices that are creating your current reality and reclaiming the power to build a life that aligns with your highest potential.

Because the life you want? It’s not going to happen by waiting, hoping, or playing it safe.

It happens when you own your truth, trust yourself, and take bold, aligned action—without fear, without apology, and without waiting for the “right time&quot;.

If you’re finally ready to break free, take up space, and move like the woman you were called to be—this is your show.

Subscribe now, tune in weekly, and let’s get into the truth that is already inside you.

It&#039;s time to…Own your truth. Claim your power and Live your freedom.

Stay Blessed!</description>
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		<itunes:summary>If your reality isn’t matching your vision, then guess what?  it’s time to get honest.

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Hosted by Shamika Brown-Upshaw—Emmy-Award-winning Business Operations &amp; Program Management Director turned Spiritual Mindset &amp; Business Coach and Founder of Spark Life Coaching &amp; Business Planning—on a mission to help women stop negotiating with their potential and start creating the life that they say they want.

Every week, we dig deep into mindset, faith, and personal power with raw, unfiltered conversations and real, actionable strategies that move you from stuck to unstoppable. We’re exposing the lies you tell yourself, challenging the beliefs that have been controlling your choices, and giving you the tools to finally move your life and business forward—with confidence, clarity, and power.

Because here’s the truth—nothing changes if you don’t.

This isn’t just about feel-good motivation though—it’s about real transformation. It’s about shifting out of the habits, mindsets, and choices that are creating your current reality and reclaiming the power to build a life that aligns with your highest potential.

Because the life you want? It’s not going to happen by waiting, hoping, or playing it safe.

It happens when you own your truth, trust yourself, and take bold, aligned action—without fear, without apology, and without waiting for the “right time&quot;.

If you’re finally ready to break free, take up space, and move like the woman you were called to be—this is your show.

Subscribe now, tune in weekly, and let’s get into the truth that is already inside you.

It&#039;s time to…Own your truth. Claim your power and Live your freedom.

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	<title>Episode #17: The Truth Will Set You Free – Now What?</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>Season One Finale</strong></p>



<p class="">In this final episode of Season One, we’re not just recapping—we’re reckoning.
We’ve talked identity, money, boundaries, and purpose... but today, we face what it <em>really</em> takes to live free.</p>



<p class="">Because the truth may set you free—but freedom still demands action.</p>



<p class="">Shamika holds space for the hard questions:
What are you still pretending not to know?
What truth did you hear this season that you haven’t acted on?
And what’s it going to cost if you don’t?</p>



<p class="">This episode is about honoring the clarity you already have—and challenging yourself to stop sitting in it.
If you’ve been stuck in reflection, it’s time to step into decision. Because there is no next level without NEXT MOVES.</p>



<p class="">We wrap the season with a soul-led affirmation to anchor what you’ve learned—and a clear call to stop waiting and <em>start moving</em>.</p>





<p class=""><strong>In This Episode:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The importance of owning one's reality, </li>



<li class="">Why knowing the truth isn’t the same as living it</li>



<li class="">The gap between knowing and doing, </li>



<li class="">And the necessity of embracing one's true self despite fear.</li>
</ul>





<p class=""><strong>Chapters:</strong>
00:00 – Season One Reflection and Growth
05:23 – Creating Your Own Reality
07:20 – The Knowing-Doing Gap
09:48 – Embracing Your True Self
11:26 – Redefining Worth and Purpose
14:15 – Taking Action and Moving Forward</p>





<p class=""><strong>This Week’s Affirmation:</strong>
“I am no longer confused—I’m choosing.
I don’t need more time—I need more trust.
I will not shrink for safety or stall for approval.
I honor my truth. I embody my purpose. I take the next bold step.
I walk in full alignment—right now.”</p>





<p class=""><strong>Book your <a class="" href="#">Soul Goals™ Clarity Call</a></strong>:
If you’re stuck between what you know and what you’re willing to do—
It’s time to face what’s really in the way.
This isn’t about finding answers. It’s about trusting the ones you’ve already received.</p>





<p class=""><strong>Sponsor:</strong>
This episode is brought to you by <strong><a class="" href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com">Head Game Wraps</a></strong>—designed to keep you looking put together and powerful, even when your schedule—and your hair—have other plans.
Find yours at headgamewraps.etsy.com. </p>





<p class=""><strong>Final Word:</strong>
This may be the end of Season One…
But your work is just beginning.</p>



<p class="">Until next time—
<em>Own your Truth.</em>
<em>Claim your Power.
Live your Freedom.</em></p>



<p class=""><strong>Follow Me:</strong>
<em>IG: @your_goal_digger</em>
<em>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/powerpurposeplanprofit/">Purpose2Profit for Purpose-Seeking Professionals</a>
</em></p>



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In this final episode of Season One, we’re not just recapping—we’re reckoning.
We’ve talked identity, money, boundaries, and purpose... but today, we face what it really takes to live free.



Because the truth may set you free—but f]]></itunes:subtitle>
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<p class="">In this final episode of Season One, we’re not just recapping—we’re reckoning.
We’ve talked identity, money, boundaries, and purpose... but today, we face what it <em>really</em> takes to live free.</p>



<p class="">Because the truth may set you free—but freedom still demands action.</p>



<p class="">Shamika holds space for the hard questions:
What are you still pretending not to know?
What truth did you hear this season that you haven’t acted on?
And what’s it going to cost if you don’t?</p>



<p class="">This episode is about honoring the clarity you already have—and challenging yourself to stop sitting in it.
If you’ve been stuck in reflection, it’s time to step into decision. Because there is no next level without NEXT MOVES.</p>



<p class="">We wrap the season with a soul-led affirmation to anchor what you’ve learned—and a clear call to stop waiting and <em>start moving</em>.</p>





<p class=""><strong>In This Episode:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The importance of owning one's reality, </li>



<li class="">Why knowing the truth isn’t the same as living it</li>



<li class="">The gap between knowing and doing, </li>



<li class="">And the necessity of embracing one's true self despite fear.</li>
</ul>





<p class=""><strong>Chapters:</strong>
00:00 – Season One Reflection and Growth
05:23 – Creating Your Own Reality
07:20 – The Knowing-Doing Gap
09:48 – Embracing Your True Self
11:26 – Redefining Worth and Purpose
14:15 – Taking Action and Moving Forward</p>





<p class=""><strong>This Week’s Affirmation:</strong>
“I am no longer confused—I’m choosing.
I don’t need more time—I need more trust.
I will not shrink for safety or stall for approval.
I honor my truth. I embody my purpose. I take the next bold step.
I walk in full alignment—right now.”</p>





<p class=""><strong>Book your <a class="" href="#">Soul Goals™ Clarity Call</a></strong>:
If you’re stuck between what you know and what you’re willing to do—
It’s time to face what’s really in the way.
This isn’t about finding answers. It’s about trusting the ones you’ve already received.</p>





<p class=""><strong>Sponsor:</strong>
This episode is brought to you by <strong><a class="" href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com">Head Game Wraps</a></strong>—designed to keep you looking put together and powerful, even when your schedule—and your hair—have other plans.
Find yours at headgamewraps.etsy.com. </p>





<p class=""><strong>Final Word:</strong>
This may be the end of Season One…
But your work is just beginning.</p>



<p class="">Until next time—
<em>Own your Truth.</em>
<em>Claim your Power.
Live your Freedom.</em></p>



<p class=""><strong>Follow Me:</strong>
<em>IG: @your_goal_digger</em>
<em>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/powerpurposeplanprofit/">Purpose2Profit for Purpose-Seeking Professionals</a>
</em></p>



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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Season One Finale



In this final episode of Season One, we’re not just recapping—we’re reckoning.
We’ve talked identity, money, boundaries, and purpose... but today, we face what it really takes to live free.



Because the truth may set you free—but freedom still demands action.



Shamika holds space for the hard questions:
What are you still pretending not to know?
What truth did you hear this season that you haven’t acted on?
And what’s it going to cost if you don’t?



This episode is about honoring the clarity you already have—and challenging yourself to stop sitting in it.
If you’ve been stuck in reflection, it’s time to step into decision. Because there is no next level without NEXT MOVES.



We wrap the season with a soul-led affirmation to anchor what you’ve learned—and a clear call to stop waiting and start moving.





In This Episode:




The importance of owning one's reality, 



Why knowing the truth isn’t the same as living it



The gap between knowing and doing, 



And the necessity of embracing one's true self despite fear.






Chapters:
00:00 – Season One Reflection and Growth
05:23 – Creating Your Own Reality
07:20 – The Knowing-Doing Gap
09:48 – Embracing Your True Self
11:26 – Redefining Worth and Purpose
14:15 – Taking Action and Moving Forward





This Week’s Affirmation:
“I am no longer confused—I’m choosing.
I don’t need more time—I need more trust.
I will not shrink for safety or stall for approval.
I honor my truth. I embody my purpose. I take the next bold step.
I walk in full alignment—right now.”





Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call:
If you’re stuck between what you know and what you’re willing to do—
It’s time to face what’s really in the way.
This isn’t about finding answers. It’s about trusting the ones you’ve already received.





Sponsor:
This episode is brought to you by Head Game Wraps—designed to keep you looking put together and powerful, even when your schedule—and your hair—have other plans.
Find yours at headgamewraps.etsy.com. 





Final Word:
This may be the end of Season One…
But your work is just beginning.



Until next time—
Own your Truth.
Claim your Power.
Live your Freedom.



Follow Me:
IG: @your_goal_digger
FB Group: Purpose2Profit for Purpose-Seeking Professionals]]></itunes:summary>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth</em>, host Shamika Brown-Upshaw pulls back the curtain on the real root of most money blocks: self-worth.</strong></p>



<p class="">She doesn’t sugarcoat it.
Your financial reality?
It’s not just about how much you earn. It’s a direct reflection of what you believe you deserve.</p>



<p class="">This episode dives deep into the connection between money, power, and identity—exposing how early childhood experiences, generational beliefs, and subconscious programming shape how we give, receive, and hold wealth.</p>



<p class="">Shamika blends science, spirit, and lived experience to help listeners rewrite the money stories that keep them undercharging, overgiving, or clinging to overflow in fear.
Because true financial freedom doesn’t come from hustle—it comes from alignment.</p>



<p class="">Listeners will walk away with a fresh understanding of how to align their mindset, expand their capacity, and embody the version of themselves who can hold abundance with ease.</p>



<p class=""><strong>Takeaways</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Your financial reality is a reflection of your worth.</li>



<li class="">Money is a mindset that requires a shift in self-concept.</li>



<li class="">Wealth without worthiness leaves you searching for approval.</li>



<li class="">Up to 95% of financial habits are subconscious.</li>



<li class="">You attract what you feel safe receiving.</li>



<li class="">Affirmations without healing won't work.</li>



<li class="">Purpose work deserves to be profitable.</li>



<li class="">You are not too much; your dreams are valid.</li>



<li class="">Misalignment, not money, is the root of evil.</li>



<li class="">You must own your worth to receive abundance.</li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 The Mirror of Money and Self-Worth</p>



<p class="">05:33 The Science of Financial Habits</p>



<p class="">08:07 Spirituality and Money Mindset</p>



<p class="">10:48 Rewriting Your Money Story</p>



<p class="">13:36 Affirmations and Action Steps</p>



<p class="">16:00 Conclusion and Call to Action</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Links</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Book A <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"><strong>Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call</strong></a> </li>



<li class=""><strong>Head Game Wraps</strong> — because you’ve got to get your head in the game first:<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com</a></li>
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	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[In this episode of Tell Your Truth, host Shamika Brown-Upshaw pulls back the curtain on the real root of most money blocks: self-worth.



She doesn’t sugarcoat it.
Your financial reality?
It’s not just about how much you earn. It’s a direct reflection o]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth</em>, host Shamika Brown-Upshaw pulls back the curtain on the real root of most money blocks: self-worth.</strong></p>



<p class="">She doesn’t sugarcoat it.
Your financial reality?
It’s not just about how much you earn. It’s a direct reflection of what you believe you deserve.</p>



<p class="">This episode dives deep into the connection between money, power, and identity—exposing how early childhood experiences, generational beliefs, and subconscious programming shape how we give, receive, and hold wealth.</p>



<p class="">Shamika blends science, spirit, and lived experience to help listeners rewrite the money stories that keep them undercharging, overgiving, or clinging to overflow in fear.
Because true financial freedom doesn’t come from hustle—it comes from alignment.</p>



<p class="">Listeners will walk away with a fresh understanding of how to align their mindset, expand their capacity, and embody the version of themselves who can hold abundance with ease.</p>



<p class=""><strong>Takeaways</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Your financial reality is a reflection of your worth.</li>



<li class="">Money is a mindset that requires a shift in self-concept.</li>



<li class="">Wealth without worthiness leaves you searching for approval.</li>



<li class="">Up to 95% of financial habits are subconscious.</li>



<li class="">You attract what you feel safe receiving.</li>



<li class="">Affirmations without healing won't work.</li>



<li class="">Purpose work deserves to be profitable.</li>



<li class="">You are not too much; your dreams are valid.</li>



<li class="">Misalignment, not money, is the root of evil.</li>



<li class="">You must own your worth to receive abundance.</li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 The Mirror of Money and Self-Worth</p>



<p class="">05:33 The Science of Financial Habits</p>



<p class="">08:07 Spirituality and Money Mindset</p>



<p class="">10:48 Rewriting Your Money Story</p>



<p class="">13:36 Affirmations and Action Steps</p>



<p class="">16:00 Conclusion and Call to Action</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Links</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Book A <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"><strong>Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call</strong></a> </li>



<li class=""><strong>Head Game Wraps</strong> — because you’ve got to get your head in the game first:<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com</a></li>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Tell Your Truth, host Shamika Brown-Upshaw pulls back the curtain on the real root of most money blocks: self-worth.



She doesn’t sugarcoat it.
Your financial reality?
It’s not just about how much you earn. It’s a direct reflection of what you believe you deserve.



This episode dives deep into the connection between money, power, and identity—exposing how early childhood experiences, generational beliefs, and subconscious programming shape how we give, receive, and hold wealth.



Shamika blends science, spirit, and lived experience to help listeners rewrite the money stories that keep them undercharging, overgiving, or clinging to overflow in fear.
Because true financial freedom doesn’t come from hustle—it comes from alignment.



Listeners will walk away with a fresh understanding of how to align their mindset, expand their capacity, and embody the version of themselves who can hold abundance with ease.



Takeaways




Your financial reality is a reflection of your worth.



Money is a mindset that requires a shift in self-concept.



Wealth without worthiness leaves you searching for approval.



Up to 95% of financial habits are subconscious.



You attract what you feel safe receiving.



Affirmations without healing won't work.



Purpose work deserves to be profitable.



You are not too much; your dreams are valid.



Misalignment, not money, is the root of evil.



You must own your worth to receive abundance.




Chapters



00:00 The Mirror of Money and Self-Worth



05:33 The Science of Financial Habits



08:07 Spirituality and Money Mindset



10:48 Rewriting Your Money Story



13:36 Affirmations and Action Steps



16:00 Conclusion and Call to Action







Links




Book A Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call 



Head Game Wraps — because you’ve got to get your head in the game first: headgamewraps.etsy.com]]></itunes:summary>
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	<title>Episode #15: When the Vision Feels Too Big</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>What if the vision isn’t too big...</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>What if you’re just trying to carry it with an outdated identity?</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this powerful episode, Shamika tells the truth about what it really feels like to carry a big vision with shaky faith. The conversation explores the relationship between self-doubt and the expansive nature of one's calling, emphasizing that discomfort is a natural part of the growth process.</strong> <strong>If you’ve ever looked at what God showed you and thought, ‘How am I supposed to pull <em>that</em> off?’—this conversation is for you. We’re talking identity, fear, and what it means to stretch even when you don’t have the full picture.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>We’re talking:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>What “overwhelm” really means in your purpose journey</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>The neuroscience behind resistance + spiritual alignment</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>How to stretch your identity to match your calling</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>The 5 practical steps to move forward without proof</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Why shrinking is not humility—it’s sabotage</strong></li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>And if you’re tired of doubting whether you’re really the one to carry the vision?</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>This episode will remind you:</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>God doesn’t call the qualified. He qualifies the called.</strong></p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 Embracing the Divine Invitation</p>



<p class="">12:14 Reframing Fear as Growth</p>



<p class="">19:08 Taking Aligned Action</p>



<p class="">24:11 Shifting from Vision to Value</p>





<p class=""><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call →</strong><a href="https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call"><strong> https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call</strong></a></li>



<li class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wrap →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"><strong> headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a></li>
</ul>



<p class=""></p>]]></description>
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What if you’re just trying to carry it with an outdated identity?



In this powerful episode, Shamika tells the truth about what it really feels like to carry a big vision with shaky faith. The conversation explores t]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>What if the vision isn’t too big...</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>What if you’re just trying to carry it with an outdated identity?</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this powerful episode, Shamika tells the truth about what it really feels like to carry a big vision with shaky faith. The conversation explores the relationship between self-doubt and the expansive nature of one's calling, emphasizing that discomfort is a natural part of the growth process.</strong> <strong>If you’ve ever looked at what God showed you and thought, ‘How am I supposed to pull <em>that</em> off?’—this conversation is for you. We’re talking identity, fear, and what it means to stretch even when you don’t have the full picture.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>We’re talking:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>What “overwhelm” really means in your purpose journey</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>The neuroscience behind resistance + spiritual alignment</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>How to stretch your identity to match your calling</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>The 5 practical steps to move forward without proof</strong><strong>
</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Why shrinking is not humility—it’s sabotage</strong></li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>And if you’re tired of doubting whether you’re really the one to carry the vision?</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>This episode will remind you:</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>God doesn’t call the qualified. He qualifies the called.</strong></p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 Embracing the Divine Invitation</p>



<p class="">12:14 Reframing Fear as Growth</p>



<p class="">19:08 Taking Aligned Action</p>



<p class="">24:11 Shifting from Vision to Value</p>





<p class=""><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call →</strong><a href="https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call"><strong> https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call</strong></a></li>



<li class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wrap →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"><strong> headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a></li>
</ul>



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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the vision isn’t too big...
What if you’re just trying to carry it with an outdated identity?



In this powerful episode, Shamika tells the truth about what it really feels like to carry a big vision with shaky faith. The conversation explores the relationship between self-doubt and the expansive nature of one's calling, emphasizing that discomfort is a natural part of the growth process. If you’ve ever looked at what God showed you and thought, ‘How am I supposed to pull that off?’—this conversation is for you. We’re talking identity, fear, and what it means to stretch even when you don’t have the full picture.



We’re talking:




What “overwhelm” really means in your purpose journey




The neuroscience behind resistance + spiritual alignment




How to stretch your identity to match your calling




The 5 practical steps to move forward without proof




Why shrinking is not humility—it’s sabotage




And if you’re tired of doubting whether you’re really the one to carry the vision?
This episode will remind you:
God doesn’t call the qualified. He qualifies the called.







Chapters



00:00 Embracing the Divine Invitation



12:14 Reframing Fear as Growth



19:08 Taking Aligned Action



24:11 Shifting from Vision to Value





Resources &amp; Links:




Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call → https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call



Grab your HeadGame Wrap → headgamewraps.etsy.com]]></itunes:summary>
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	<title>Episode #14: The Company You Keep – How Your Circle is Shaping Your Success</title>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2025 02:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shamika Brown-Upshaw]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">Have you ever felt like you’re doing <em>all the right things</em>—praying, planning, showing up—and still feel stuck?
In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth</em>, Shamika gets real about one of the most overlooked barriers to growth: your circle.</p>



<p class="">You don’t just need strategy to evolve—you need alignment in your environment.</p>



<p class="">We’re breaking down the 3 types of people in your life (Elevators, Enablers, Drainers), how to spot them, and what to do once you’ve identified the patterns.</p>



<p class=""><strong>You’ll also learn:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Why some relationships feel loyal but are actually trauma bonds
</li>



<li class="">How to stop confusing “nice” people with aligned people
</li>



<li class="">Why your nervous system calibrates to the people around you
</li>



<li class="">How to set boundaries without guilt or isolation
</li>



<li class="">What neuroscience and quantum energy say about choosing the right circle
</li>
</ul>



<p class="">This is not about cutting people off out of fear. It’s about choosing your frequency with intention.</p>



<p class="">Plus, a powerful affirmation to recalibrate your energy and call in soul-aligned relationships.</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 The Importance of Your Circle</p>



<p class="">07:11 Shifting Your Mindset for Growth</p>



<p class="">09:12 Identifying Your Circle: Elevators, Enablers, and Drainers</p>



<p class="">11:51 Taking Action: Auditing Your Relationships</p>



<p class="">14:29 Building Your Next Level Network</p>



<p class="">16:56 Affirmations for Attracting Supportive Relationships</p>



<p class=""><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:
</strong>Book Your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call:
<a href="https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call">https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call</a></p>



<p class="">Purchase Your HeadGame Wraps:
<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com">https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</a></p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the right things—praying, planning, showing up—and still feel stuck?
In this episode of Tell Your Truth, Shamika gets real about one of the most overlooked barriers to growth: your circle.



You don’t just need s]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="">Have you ever felt like you’re doing <em>all the right things</em>—praying, planning, showing up—and still feel stuck?
In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth</em>, Shamika gets real about one of the most overlooked barriers to growth: your circle.</p>



<p class="">You don’t just need strategy to evolve—you need alignment in your environment.</p>



<p class="">We’re breaking down the 3 types of people in your life (Elevators, Enablers, Drainers), how to spot them, and what to do once you’ve identified the patterns.</p>



<p class=""><strong>You’ll also learn:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Why some relationships feel loyal but are actually trauma bonds
</li>



<li class="">How to stop confusing “nice” people with aligned people
</li>



<li class="">Why your nervous system calibrates to the people around you
</li>



<li class="">How to set boundaries without guilt or isolation
</li>



<li class="">What neuroscience and quantum energy say about choosing the right circle
</li>
</ul>



<p class="">This is not about cutting people off out of fear. It’s about choosing your frequency with intention.</p>



<p class="">Plus, a powerful affirmation to recalibrate your energy and call in soul-aligned relationships.</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 The Importance of Your Circle</p>



<p class="">07:11 Shifting Your Mindset for Growth</p>



<p class="">09:12 Identifying Your Circle: Elevators, Enablers, and Drainers</p>



<p class="">11:51 Taking Action: Auditing Your Relationships</p>



<p class="">14:29 Building Your Next Level Network</p>



<p class="">16:56 Affirmations for Attracting Supportive Relationships</p>



<p class=""><strong>Mentioned in This Episode:
</strong>Book Your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call:
<a href="https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call">https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call</a></p>



<p class="">Purchase Your HeadGame Wraps:
<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com">https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the right things—praying, planning, showing up—and still feel stuck?
In this episode of Tell Your Truth, Shamika gets real about one of the most overlooked barriers to growth: your circle.



You don’t just need strategy to evolve—you need alignment in your environment.



We’re breaking down the 3 types of people in your life (Elevators, Enablers, Drainers), how to spot them, and what to do once you’ve identified the patterns.



You’ll also learn:




Why some relationships feel loyal but are actually trauma bonds




How to stop confusing “nice” people with aligned people




Why your nervous system calibrates to the people around you




How to set boundaries without guilt or isolation




What neuroscience and quantum energy say about choosing the right circle





This is not about cutting people off out of fear. It’s about choosing your frequency with intention.



Plus, a powerful affirmation to recalibrate your energy and call in soul-aligned relationships.







Chapters



00:00 The Importance of Your Circle



07:11 Shifting Your Mindset for Growth



09:12 Identifying Your Circle: Elevators, Enablers, and Drainers



11:51 Taking Action: Auditing Your Relationships



14:29 Building Your Next Level Network



16:56 Affirmations for Attracting Supportive Relationships



Mentioned in This Episode:
Book Your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call:
https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call



Purchase Your HeadGame Wraps:
https://headgamewraps.etsy.com]]></itunes:summary>
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	<title>Episode #13: Alignment Over Hustle – Work Smarter, Not Harder</title>
	<link>https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/podcast/episode-13-alignment-over-hustle-work-smarter-not-harder/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-13-alignment-over-hustle-work-smarter-not-harder</link>
	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2025 23:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shamika Brown-Upshaw]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=1826</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">In this episode, Shamika breaks down one of the biggest myths ambitious women have been sold: that hustle guarantees success.
From staying up until 3 a.m. to burning out in the name of "discipline," she shares her own wake-up call and why <strong>alignment—not over-efforting—is the true pathway to peace, prosperity, and purpose.</strong></p>



<p class="">If you’ve ever felt stuck even though you’re doing “everything right”—updating your LinkedIn, taking on extra work, attending every webinar—but still not getting the opportunities, clients, or clarity you crave…
<strong>This episode is your reminder that your energy—not just your effort—is what’s calling the shots.</strong></p>



<p class="">Shamika walks you through the mindset, spiritual, and energetic shifts that purpose-seeking women must make to stop performing and start receiving.
Whether you're a professional contemplating entrepreneurship or already building something behind the scenes, <strong>this is the episode that helps you reset from hustle to alignment—without guilt.</strong></p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>What You’ll Learn in This Episode:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Why working harder isn’t always working <em>smarter</em></li>



<li class="">The truth about burnout and what it’s really costing you</li>



<li class="">How to shift from overworking to aligned action</li>



<li class="">The Law of Attraction perspective most professionals ignore</li>



<li class="">The key to attracting opportunities, clients, and clarity faster</li>



<li class="">3 tactical ways to embody alignment and protect your frequency</li>
</ul>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Powerful Insights + Takeaways:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><em>You don’t attract what you say you want—you attract what you believe you deserve.</em></p>



<p class=""><em>The universe doesn’t respond to pressure—it responds to alignment.</em></p>



<p class=""><em>You’re not tired because you’re working hard. You’re tired because you’re out of energetic alignment.</em></p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Links &amp; Resources:</strong></h3>



<p class="">Book your <strong>Soul Goals™ Clarity Call</strong>
→ <a class="" href="https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call">https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call</a>
A transformational 1:1 session to reset your energy, refine your next move, and activate your aligned path.</p>



<p class="">Grab your <strong>HeadGame Wraps</strong>
→ <a class="" href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com">https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</a>
Because when your mindset is rising, your crown should sit right too.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Affirmation of the Week:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><strong>“I align with ease. I attract with trust.
I no longer chase—what’s mine finds me.”</strong></p>



<p class="">Say it. Feel it. Live it.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Next Week on Tell Your Truth:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><strong>Episode 14 – <em>The Company You Keep: How Your Circle Is Shaping Your Success</em></strong>
Your environment either elevates you or keeps you stagnant. In the next episode, we’re unpacking the power of your people—and why it might be time for a circle audit.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Let’s Connect:</strong></h3>



<p class="">If this episode spoke to you, don’t keep it to yourself—<strong>share it with a woman who needs it.</strong>
Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @your_goal_digger when you post your biggest takeaway on IG or LinkedIn.
</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Chapters</strong></h3>



<p class="">00:00 The Hustle Culture Myth</p>



<p class="">02:58 Shifting from Hustle to Alignment</p>



<p class="">05:56 Manifestation and Identity</p>



<p class="">08:50 Practical Steps to Align with Your Goals</p>



<p class="">11:46 Affirmations and Closing Thoughts</p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[In this episode, Shamika breaks down one of the biggest myths ambitious women have been sold: that hustle guarantees success.
From staying up until 3 a.m. to burning out in the name of discipline, she shares her own wake-up call and why alignment—not ove]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
	<itunes:title><![CDATA[Alignment Over Hustle – Work Smarter, Not Harder]]></itunes:title>
	<itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode>
	<itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="">In this episode, Shamika breaks down one of the biggest myths ambitious women have been sold: that hustle guarantees success.
From staying up until 3 a.m. to burning out in the name of "discipline," she shares her own wake-up call and why <strong>alignment—not over-efforting—is the true pathway to peace, prosperity, and purpose.</strong></p>



<p class="">If you’ve ever felt stuck even though you’re doing “everything right”—updating your LinkedIn, taking on extra work, attending every webinar—but still not getting the opportunities, clients, or clarity you crave…
<strong>This episode is your reminder that your energy—not just your effort—is what’s calling the shots.</strong></p>



<p class="">Shamika walks you through the mindset, spiritual, and energetic shifts that purpose-seeking women must make to stop performing and start receiving.
Whether you're a professional contemplating entrepreneurship or already building something behind the scenes, <strong>this is the episode that helps you reset from hustle to alignment—without guilt.</strong></p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>What You’ll Learn in This Episode:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Why working harder isn’t always working <em>smarter</em></li>



<li class="">The truth about burnout and what it’s really costing you</li>



<li class="">How to shift from overworking to aligned action</li>



<li class="">The Law of Attraction perspective most professionals ignore</li>



<li class="">The key to attracting opportunities, clients, and clarity faster</li>



<li class="">3 tactical ways to embody alignment and protect your frequency</li>
</ul>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Powerful Insights + Takeaways:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><em>You don’t attract what you say you want—you attract what you believe you deserve.</em></p>



<p class=""><em>The universe doesn’t respond to pressure—it responds to alignment.</em></p>



<p class=""><em>You’re not tired because you’re working hard. You’re tired because you’re out of energetic alignment.</em></p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Links &amp; Resources:</strong></h3>



<p class="">Book your <strong>Soul Goals™ Clarity Call</strong>
→ <a class="" href="https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call">https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call</a>
A transformational 1:1 session to reset your energy, refine your next move, and activate your aligned path.</p>



<p class="">Grab your <strong>HeadGame Wraps</strong>
→ <a class="" href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com">https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</a>
Because when your mindset is rising, your crown should sit right too.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Affirmation of the Week:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><strong>“I align with ease. I attract with trust.
I no longer chase—what’s mine finds me.”</strong></p>



<p class="">Say it. Feel it. Live it.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Next Week on Tell Your Truth:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><strong>Episode 14 – <em>The Company You Keep: How Your Circle Is Shaping Your Success</em></strong>
Your environment either elevates you or keeps you stagnant. In the next episode, we’re unpacking the power of your people—and why it might be time for a circle audit.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Let’s Connect:</strong></h3>



<p class="">If this episode spoke to you, don’t keep it to yourself—<strong>share it with a woman who needs it.</strong>
Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @your_goal_digger when you post your biggest takeaway on IG or LinkedIn.
</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Chapters</strong></h3>



<p class="">00:00 The Hustle Culture Myth</p>



<p class="">02:58 Shifting from Hustle to Alignment</p>



<p class="">05:56 Manifestation and Identity</p>



<p class="">08:50 Practical Steps to Align with Your Goals</p>



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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Shamika breaks down one of the biggest myths ambitious women have been sold: that hustle guarantees success.
From staying up until 3 a.m. to burning out in the name of "discipline," she shares her own wake-up call and why alignment—not over-efforting—is the true pathway to peace, prosperity, and purpose.



If you’ve ever felt stuck even though you’re doing “everything right”—updating your LinkedIn, taking on extra work, attending every webinar—but still not getting the opportunities, clients, or clarity you crave…
This episode is your reminder that your energy—not just your effort—is what’s calling the shots.



Shamika walks you through the mindset, spiritual, and energetic shifts that purpose-seeking women must make to stop performing and start receiving.
Whether you're a professional contemplating entrepreneurship or already building something behind the scenes, this is the episode that helps you reset from hustle to alignment—without guilt.





What You’ll Learn in This Episode:




Why working harder isn’t always working smarter



The truth about burnout and what it’s really costing you



How to shift from overworking to aligned action



The Law of Attraction perspective most professionals ignore



The key to attracting opportunities, clients, and clarity faster



3 tactical ways to embody alignment and protect your frequency






Powerful Insights + Takeaways:



You don’t attract what you say you want—you attract what you believe you deserve.



The universe doesn’t respond to pressure—it responds to alignment.



You’re not tired because you’re working hard. You’re tired because you’re out of energetic alignment.





Links &amp; Resources:



Book your Soul Goals™ Clarity Call
→ https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/soul-goals-clarity-call
A transformational 1:1 session to reset your energy, refine your next move, and activate your aligned path.



Grab your HeadGame Wraps
→ https://headgamewraps.etsy.com
Because when your mindset is rising, your crown should sit right too.





Affirmation of the Week:



“I align with ease. I attract with trust.
I no longer chase—what’s mine finds me.”



Say it. Feel it. Live it.





Next Week on Tell Your Truth:



Episode 14 – The Company You Keep: How Your Circle Is Shaping Your Success
Your environment either elevates you or keeps you stagnant. In the next episode, we’re unpacking the power of your people—and why it might be time for a circle audit.





Let’s Connect:



If this episode spoke to you, don’t keep it to yourself—share it with a woman who needs it.
Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @your_goal_digger when you post your biggest takeaway on IG or LinkedIn.




Chapters



00:00 The Hustle Culture Myth



02:58 Shifting from Hustle to Alignment



05:56 Manifestation and Identity



08:50 Practical Steps to Align with Your Goals



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	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re unclear… but because you’re still shrinking?</p>



<p class="">In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw discusses the concept of playing small and how it is often a choice driven by fear and societal expectations. The conversation delves into the neuroscience behind our survival instincts, the importance of self-trust, and the need to define success on our own terms. Shamika encourages listeners to take bold actions and affirm their power, emphasizing that true growth comes from moving beyond fear and seeking alignment with one's true self.</p>



<p class="">You’ll learn:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">How emotional, social, and unfamiliar fears convince you to hide</li>



<li class="">Why your nervous system resists growth (and how to rewire it)</li>



<li class="">The truth about spiritual obedience and quantum alignment</li>



<li class="">What it really means to define success <em>on your own terms</em></li>



<li class="">How the Soul Goals™ movement was born from a quiet “yes”</li>
</ul>



<p class="">And most importantly?
You’ll be challenged to make <strong>one bold move</strong>—this week.</p>



<p class="">Because playing small is a choice.
And so is showing up fully.</p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 The Choice to Play Small</p>



<p class="">08:43 Reprogramming the Nervous System</p>



<p class="">14:06 Defining Success on Your Own Terms</p>



<p class="">19:43 Taking Bold Action and Moving Forward</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Mentioned in this episode:</strong></p>



<p class=""><a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"><strong>Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call
</strong></a><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"><strong>Grab your Head Game Wraps</strong></a></p>



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	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="">What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re unclear… but because you’re still shrinking?</p>



<p class="">In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw discusses the concept of playing small and how it is often a choice driven by fear and societal expectations. The conversation delves into the neuroscience behind our survival instincts, the importance of self-trust, and the need to define success on our own terms. Shamika encourages listeners to take bold actions and affirm their power, emphasizing that true growth comes from moving beyond fear and seeking alignment with one's true self.</p>



<p class="">You’ll learn:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">How emotional, social, and unfamiliar fears convince you to hide</li>



<li class="">Why your nervous system resists growth (and how to rewire it)</li>



<li class="">The truth about spiritual obedience and quantum alignment</li>



<li class="">What it really means to define success <em>on your own terms</em></li>



<li class="">How the Soul Goals™ movement was born from a quiet “yes”</li>
</ul>



<p class="">And most importantly?
You’ll be challenged to make <strong>one bold move</strong>—this week.</p>



<p class="">Because playing small is a choice.
And so is showing up fully.</p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 The Choice to Play Small</p>



<p class="">08:43 Reprogramming the Nervous System</p>



<p class="">14:06 Defining Success on Your Own Terms</p>



<p class="">19:43 Taking Bold Action and Moving Forward</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Mentioned in this episode:</strong></p>



<p class=""><a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"><strong>Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call
</strong></a><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"><strong>Grab your Head Game Wraps</strong></a></p>



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In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw discusses the concept of playing small and how it is often a choice driven by fear and societal expectations. The conversation delves into the neuroscience behind our survival instincts, the importance of self-trust, and the need to define success on our own terms. Shamika encourages listeners to take bold actions and affirm their power, emphasizing that true growth comes from moving beyond fear and seeking alignment with one's true self.



You’ll learn:




How emotional, social, and unfamiliar fears convince you to hide



Why your nervous system resists growth (and how to rewire it)



The truth about spiritual obedience and quantum alignment



What it really means to define success on your own terms



How the Soul Goals™ movement was born from a quiet “yes”




And most importantly?
You’ll be challenged to make one bold move—this week.



Because playing small is a choice.
And so is showing up fully.



Chapters



00:00 The Choice to Play Small



08:43 Reprogramming the Nervous System



14:06 Defining Success on Your Own Terms



19:43 Taking Bold Action and Moving Forward







Mentioned in this episode:



Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call
Grab your Head Game Wraps]]></itunes:summary>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth</em>, Shamika Brown-Upshaw shares a profound spiritual awakening that brought her into deep stillness, presence, and peace. It wasn’t loud or dramatic—but it changed everything.</p>



<p class="">What unfolded was a divine moment of oneness, where Shamika wasn’t thinking about God or praying to God—she was <em>with</em> God. That moment revealed a powerful truth: we’ve been taught to look outward for identity, comfort, and direction… but the real answers come from within.</p>



<p class="">Shamika explores what happens when we stop chasing external markers of safety—like titles, paychecks, or job listings—and start reconnecting with our soul. She speaks directly to those who feel stuck or uncertain, especially those trying to return to a version of comfort that may no longer exist.</p>



<p class="">Throughout the episode, Shamika invites listeners into a conversation about choosing clarity over comfort, peace over panic, and truth over illusion. She shares her own personal shift into a more soul-led life, the freedom she’s now experiencing, and how you can begin shifting gracefully—without needing all the answers today.</p>



<p class=""><strong>You’ll hear about:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">A quiet moment that sparked deep reconnection with self and Spirit</li>



<li class="">Why striving and “fixing” no longer work in a season calling us inward</li>



<li class="">The illusion of external comfort—and what to seek instead</li>



<li class="">The two types of people rising in this shift (and how to know which one you are)</li>



<li class="">What it means to live from the inside out—and how to begin doing it</li>
</ul>



<p class="">If you’re ready to get honest, get still, and return to who you really are—this episode is your homecoming.</p>



<p class="">Chapters</p>



<p class="">00:00 Spiritual Awakening and Inner Peace</p>



<p class="">07:48 The Season of the Individual</p>



<p class="">10:59 Shifting Towards Clarity and Purpose</p>



<p class="">12:58 Creating Reality from Within</p>



<p class="">14:20 Reconnecting with Your Truth</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wraps →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com/"><strong> https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a></p>





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	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[In this episode of Tell Your Truth, Shamika Brown-Upshaw shares a profound spiritual awakening that brought her into deep stillness, presence, and peace. It wasn’t loud or dramatic—but it changed everything.



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	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="">In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth</em>, Shamika Brown-Upshaw shares a profound spiritual awakening that brought her into deep stillness, presence, and peace. It wasn’t loud or dramatic—but it changed everything.</p>



<p class="">What unfolded was a divine moment of oneness, where Shamika wasn’t thinking about God or praying to God—she was <em>with</em> God. That moment revealed a powerful truth: we’ve been taught to look outward for identity, comfort, and direction… but the real answers come from within.</p>



<p class="">Shamika explores what happens when we stop chasing external markers of safety—like titles, paychecks, or job listings—and start reconnecting with our soul. She speaks directly to those who feel stuck or uncertain, especially those trying to return to a version of comfort that may no longer exist.</p>



<p class="">Throughout the episode, Shamika invites listeners into a conversation about choosing clarity over comfort, peace over panic, and truth over illusion. She shares her own personal shift into a more soul-led life, the freedom she’s now experiencing, and how you can begin shifting gracefully—without needing all the answers today.</p>



<p class=""><strong>You’ll hear about:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">A quiet moment that sparked deep reconnection with self and Spirit</li>



<li class="">Why striving and “fixing” no longer work in a season calling us inward</li>



<li class="">The illusion of external comfort—and what to seek instead</li>



<li class="">The two types of people rising in this shift (and how to know which one you are)</li>



<li class="">What it means to live from the inside out—and how to begin doing it</li>
</ul>



<p class="">If you’re ready to get honest, get still, and return to who you really are—this episode is your homecoming.</p>



<p class="">Chapters</p>



<p class="">00:00 Spiritual Awakening and Inner Peace</p>



<p class="">07:48 The Season of the Individual</p>



<p class="">10:59 Shifting Towards Clarity and Purpose</p>



<p class="">12:58 Creating Reality from Within</p>



<p class="">14:20 Reconnecting with Your Truth</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wraps →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com/"><strong> https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a></p>





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What unfolded was a divine moment of oneness, where Shamika wasn’t thinking about God or praying to God—she was with God. That moment revealed a powerful truth: we’ve been taught to look outward for identity, comfort, and direction… but the real answers come from within.



Shamika explores what happens when we stop chasing external markers of safety—like titles, paychecks, or job listings—and start reconnecting with our soul. She speaks directly to those who feel stuck or uncertain, especially those trying to return to a version of comfort that may no longer exist.



Throughout the episode, Shamika invites listeners into a conversation about choosing clarity over comfort, peace over panic, and truth over illusion. She shares her own personal shift into a more soul-led life, the freedom she’s now experiencing, and how you can begin shifting gracefully—without needing all the answers today.



You’ll hear about:




A quiet moment that sparked deep reconnection with self and Spirit



Why striving and “fixing” no longer work in a season calling us inward



The illusion of external comfort—and what to seek instead



The two types of people rising in this shift (and how to know which one you are)



What it means to live from the inside out—and how to begin doing it




If you’re ready to get honest, get still, and return to who you really are—this episode is your homecoming.



Chapters



00:00 Spiritual Awakening and Inner Peace



07:48 The Season of the Individual



10:59 Shifting Towards Clarity and Purpose



12:58 Creating Reality from Within



14:20 Reconnecting with Your Truth







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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>You’re not stuck because you’re unmotivated—you’re stuck because you’re waiting for a </strong><strong><em>feeling</em></strong><strong> to do what </strong><strong><em>discipline</em></strong><strong> was designed for.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw delves into the myth of motivation and emphasizes the importance of discipline as a sustainable strategy for personal growth. The conversation explores how motivation is a fleeting emotional state influenced by various factors, while discipline is a deliberate choice that builds systems for long-term success. Shamika discusses the significance of aligning one's actions with their purpose and the role of energy and frequency in attracting desired outcomes. Practical steps for creating structure and discipline in daily life are provided, along with affirmations to reinforce positive habits.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>If you’ve been waiting to “feel ready”... this is your moment to move.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>You'll Learn:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>Motivation is not a long-term strategy; it's a temporary emotional state.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Discipline is a choice that builds systems independent of motivation.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Real freedom requires structure and support in your life.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Your thoughts and actions create energetic signals that attract similar frequencies.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Discipline helps you become a vibrational match for your desired life.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Building habits around healing is essential for sustainable growth.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>You need to create boundaries around your energy to protect your focus.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Simplifying systems makes it easier to show up consistently.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Aligning your daily routines with your priorities fosters peace and clarity.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Affirmations can reinforce the habits and mindset you want to cultivate.</strong></li>
</ul>



<p class="">Chapters</p>



<p class="">00:00 The Myth of Motivation</p>



<p class="">02:53 Understanding Discipline and Its Importance</p>



<p class="">05:46 The Role of Energy and Frequency</p>



<p class="">09:08 The Journey from Motivation to Discipline</p>



<p class="">11:58 Building a Sustainable Life</p>



<p class="">15:08 Creating Structure for Freedom</p>



<p class="">17:46 Practical Steps for Discipline</p>



<p class="">21:11 Affirmations and Closing Thoughts</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wraps →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com/"><strong> https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a></p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You’re not stuck because you’re unmotivated—you’re stuck because you’re waiting for a feeling to do what discipline was designed for.



In this episode of Tell Your Truth, Shamika Brown-Upshaw delves into the myth of motivation and emphasizes the import]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<itunes:title><![CDATA[Stop Waiting for ‘Motivation’ – The Truth About Self-Discipline]]></itunes:title>
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	<itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>You’re not stuck because you’re unmotivated—you’re stuck because you’re waiting for a </strong><strong><em>feeling</em></strong><strong> to do what </strong><strong><em>discipline</em></strong><strong> was designed for.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw delves into the myth of motivation and emphasizes the importance of discipline as a sustainable strategy for personal growth. The conversation explores how motivation is a fleeting emotional state influenced by various factors, while discipline is a deliberate choice that builds systems for long-term success. Shamika discusses the significance of aligning one's actions with their purpose and the role of energy and frequency in attracting desired outcomes. Practical steps for creating structure and discipline in daily life are provided, along with affirmations to reinforce positive habits.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>If you’ve been waiting to “feel ready”... this is your moment to move.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>You'll Learn:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>Motivation is not a long-term strategy; it's a temporary emotional state.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Discipline is a choice that builds systems independent of motivation.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Real freedom requires structure and support in your life.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Your thoughts and actions create energetic signals that attract similar frequencies.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Discipline helps you become a vibrational match for your desired life.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Building habits around healing is essential for sustainable growth.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>You need to create boundaries around your energy to protect your focus.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Simplifying systems makes it easier to show up consistently.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Aligning your daily routines with your priorities fosters peace and clarity.</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Affirmations can reinforce the habits and mindset you want to cultivate.</strong></li>
</ul>



<p class="">Chapters</p>



<p class="">00:00 The Myth of Motivation</p>



<p class="">02:53 Understanding Discipline and Its Importance</p>



<p class="">05:46 The Role of Energy and Frequency</p>



<p class="">09:08 The Journey from Motivation to Discipline</p>



<p class="">11:58 Building a Sustainable Life</p>



<p class="">15:08 Creating Structure for Freedom</p>



<p class="">17:46 Practical Steps for Discipline</p>



<p class="">21:11 Affirmations and Closing Thoughts</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wraps →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com/"><strong> https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’re not stuck because you’re unmotivated—you’re stuck because you’re waiting for a feeling to do what discipline was designed for.



In this episode of 'Tell Your Truth', Shamika Brown-Upshaw delves into the myth of motivation and emphasizes the importance of discipline as a sustainable strategy for personal growth. The conversation explores how motivation is a fleeting emotional state influenced by various factors, while discipline is a deliberate choice that builds systems for long-term success. Shamika discusses the significance of aligning one's actions with their purpose and the role of energy and frequency in attracting desired outcomes. Practical steps for creating structure and discipline in daily life are provided, along with affirmations to reinforce positive habits.



If you’ve been waiting to “feel ready”... this is your moment to move.



You'll Learn:




Motivation is not a long-term strategy; it's a temporary emotional state.



Discipline is a choice that builds systems independent of motivation.



Real freedom requires structure and support in your life.



Your thoughts and actions create energetic signals that attract similar frequencies.



Discipline helps you become a vibrational match for your desired life.



Building habits around healing is essential for sustainable growth.



You need to create boundaries around your energy to protect your focus.



Simplifying systems makes it easier to show up consistently.



Aligning your daily routines with your priorities fosters peace and clarity.



Affirmations can reinforce the habits and mindset you want to cultivate.




Chapters



00:00 The Myth of Motivation



02:53 Understanding Discipline and Its Importance



05:46 The Role of Energy and Frequency



09:08 The Journey from Motivation to Discipline



11:58 Building a Sustainable Life



15:08 Creating Structure for Freedom



17:46 Practical Steps for Discipline



21:11 Affirmations and Closing Thoughts







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	<title>Episode #9 — The Excuse Game: Why You’re Not Really “Too Busy” or “Not Ready”</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>You’ve told yourself it’s timing.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’ve told yourself it’s discernment.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’ve told yourself, “Let me just get through this season first.”</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>But deep down… you know that’s not the real reason you haven’t moved.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this episode of </strong><strong><em>Tell Your Truth</em></strong><strong>, we’re breaking down the fear behind your most convincing excuses—the ones dressed up as wisdom, stewardship, and logic.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>Because here’s the truth:</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’re not too busy.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’re not unprepared.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’re not waiting on God.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>You’re just scared.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>And that fear has been showing up as perfectionism, delay, over-responsibility, and overwhelm.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this episode, Shamika Brown-Upshaw explores the internal struggle between the part of us that is ready to rise and the part that holds us back. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our capacity, the illusion of readiness, and the detrimental effects of procrastination. Shamika encourages listeners to confront their fears, take small actions, and reclaim their power to live authentically. The episode serves as a call to action for those feeling stuck to break free from excuses and embrace their truth.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>You’ll learn:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>Why “too busy” is often just a boundary issue in disguise</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>How “I’m not ready” becomes the most dangerous stall tactic</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>How excuses rewire your brain and block your energy</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Why faith and fear can’t lead at the same time</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>What to do when you’re tired of hiding behind logic and ready to move in alignment</strong></li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>This is the permission slip your next level has been waiting for.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>Plus, Shamika shares the </strong><strong><em>real</em></strong><strong> reason this podcast almost didn’t happen—and how she finally stopped shrinking and started walking in full obedience.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>00:00 The Quiet War Within: Rising vs. Stalling</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>02:53 Understanding Capacity: Time vs. Space</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>06:01 The Illusion of Readiness: Fear in Disguise</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>08:58 The Knowing-Doing Gap: Overcoming Mental Barriers</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>11:56 The Cost of Delay: Power and Progress</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>15:01 Living Your Truth: The Journey of Authenticity</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>17:47 Reclaiming Power: Steps to Move Forward</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>21:12 Breaking the Cycle: From Fear to Action</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>23:53 Conclusion: Embracing Your Truth and Power</strong></p>





<p class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wraps →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"><strong> https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a>
</p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You’ve told yourself it’s timing.
You’ve told yourself it’s discernment.
You’ve told yourself, “Let me just get through this season first.”



But deep down… you know that’s not the real reason you haven’t moved.



In this episode of Tell Your Truth, we]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>You’ve told yourself it’s timing.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’ve told yourself it’s discernment.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’ve told yourself, “Let me just get through this season first.”</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>But deep down… you know that’s not the real reason you haven’t moved.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this episode of </strong><strong><em>Tell Your Truth</em></strong><strong>, we’re breaking down the fear behind your most convincing excuses—the ones dressed up as wisdom, stewardship, and logic.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>Because here’s the truth:</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’re not too busy.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’re not unprepared.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>You’re not waiting on God.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>You’re just scared.</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>And that fear has been showing up as perfectionism, delay, over-responsibility, and overwhelm.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>In this episode, Shamika Brown-Upshaw explores the internal struggle between the part of us that is ready to rise and the part that holds us back. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our capacity, the illusion of readiness, and the detrimental effects of procrastination. Shamika encourages listeners to confront their fears, take small actions, and reclaim their power to live authentically. The episode serves as a call to action for those feeling stuck to break free from excuses and embrace their truth.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>You’ll learn:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><strong>Why “too busy” is often just a boundary issue in disguise</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>How “I’m not ready” becomes the most dangerous stall tactic</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>How excuses rewire your brain and block your energy</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>Why faith and fear can’t lead at the same time</strong></li>



<li class=""><strong>What to do when you’re tired of hiding behind logic and ready to move in alignment</strong></li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>This is the permission slip your next level has been waiting for.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>Plus, Shamika shares the </strong><strong><em>real</em></strong><strong> reason this podcast almost didn’t happen—and how she finally stopped shrinking and started walking in full obedience.</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>00:00 The Quiet War Within: Rising vs. Stalling</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>02:53 Understanding Capacity: Time vs. Space</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>06:01 The Illusion of Readiness: Fear in Disguise</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>08:58 The Knowing-Doing Gap: Overcoming Mental Barriers</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>11:56 The Cost of Delay: Power and Progress</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>15:01 Living Your Truth: The Journey of Authenticity</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>17:47 Reclaiming Power: Steps to Move Forward</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>21:12 Breaking the Cycle: From Fear to Action</strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>23:53 Conclusion: Embracing Your Truth and Power</strong></p>





<p class=""><strong>Grab your HeadGame Wraps →</strong><a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"><strong> https://headgamewraps.etsy.com</strong></a>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’ve told yourself it’s timing.
You’ve told yourself it’s discernment.
You’ve told yourself, “Let me just get through this season first.”



But deep down… you know that’s not the real reason you haven’t moved.



In this episode of Tell Your Truth, we’re breaking down the fear behind your most convincing excuses—the ones dressed up as wisdom, stewardship, and logic.



Because here’s the truth:
You’re not too busy.
You’re not unprepared.
You’re not waiting on God.



You’re just scared.
And that fear has been showing up as perfectionism, delay, over-responsibility, and overwhelm.



In this episode, Shamika Brown-Upshaw explores the internal struggle between the part of us that is ready to rise and the part that holds us back. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our capacity, the illusion of readiness, and the detrimental effects of procrastination. Shamika encourages listeners to confront their fears, take small actions, and reclaim their power to live authentically. The episode serves as a call to action for those feeling stuck to break free from excuses and embrace their truth.



You’ll learn:




Why “too busy” is often just a boundary issue in disguise



How “I’m not ready” becomes the most dangerous stall tactic



How excuses rewire your brain and block your energy



Why faith and fear can’t lead at the same time



What to do when you’re tired of hiding behind logic and ready to move in alignment




This is the permission slip your next level has been waiting for.



Plus, Shamika shares the real reason this podcast almost didn’t happen—and how she finally stopped shrinking and started walking in full obedience.



Chapters



00:00 The Quiet War Within: Rising vs. Stalling



02:53 Understanding Capacity: Time vs. Space



06:01 The Illusion of Readiness: Fear in Disguise



08:58 The Knowing-Doing Gap: Overcoming Mental Barriers



11:56 The Cost of Delay: Power and Progress



15:01 Living Your Truth: The Journey of Authenticity



17:47 Reclaiming Power: Steps to Move Forward



21:12 Breaking the Cycle: From Fear to Action



23:53 Conclusion: Embracing Your Truth and Power





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	<title>EPISODE #8: Breaking the Cycle: Why It’s So Easy to Go Back—Even When You Know Better</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">You’ve healed. You’ve journaled. You’ve done the inner work.
So why does it still feel like you’re circling the same mountain?</p>



<p class="">In this episode, we’re talking about <strong>why your patterns keep repeating</strong>, even when you <em>know better</em>.
Because growth alone doesn’t break the cycle—<strong>structure does</strong>.</p>



<p class="">We’ll dive into:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The real reason you default to old habits (even when you’ve outgrown them)</li>



<li class="">How your nervous system, beliefs, and emotional memory keep pulling you back</li>



<li class="">What your schedule, space, and daily choices say about who you believe you are</li>



<li class="">The role of structure, identity, and support in rewiring your patterns—for good
</li>
</ul>



<p class="">And I’m sharing a personal story that opened my eyes to the subtle ways I was still living from my old self…</p>



<p class="">Even after I had claimed my freedom.</p>



<p class="">This is the episode that will <strong>connect your healing to your habits</strong>—so you can stop just surviving transformation and actually start living it.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Healing without structure is a setup for relapse</li>



<li class="">Awareness won’t override a system built to survive your past</li>



<li class="">You don’t need more effort—you need more access: to God, to your truth, to strategy that supports your evolution</li>



<li class="">You can’t build your future from habits that belong to your past
</li>
</ul>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Mentioned in this Episode:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Bob Proctor: “The subconscious doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined—it only knows what’s repeated.”
</li>



<li class="">Maxwell Maltz: “You cannot consistently perform in a way that’s inconsistent with how you see yourself.”
</li>
</ul>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Weekly Affirmation:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><strong>'I break every cycle that no longer serves me. I am not just healed—I am rewired. I am creating something new.'</strong></p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Your Next Step:</strong></h3>



<p class="">If this episode called you out—and called you forward—<strong>Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call</strong>.
We’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck and get clear on what your soul is actually calling you to do next.</p>



<p class="">→ <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min" data-type="link" data-id="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">Book your Clarity Call now</a></p>



<p class="">And don’t forget to grab your <strong>HeadGame Wraps</strong> at<a href="http://headgameworkshop.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com
</a>Because to change anything about your life, you’ve got to get your head in the game first.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Stay Connected:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Subscribe and leave a review if this episode moved you</li>



<li class="">Share it with another woman who’s ready to rise</li>



<li class="">Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/your_goal_digger/" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.instagram.com/your_goal_digger/">@your_goal_digger</a> on IG for more truths, tools, and next-level conversations</li>
</ul>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Chapters</strong></h3>



<p class="">00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Familiarity</p>



<p class="">08:15 Understanding Subconscious Patterns</p>



<p class="">14:15 Steps to Break the Cycle</p>



<p class="">18:09 The Power of Structure and Support</p>



<p class=""></p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You’ve healed. You’ve journaled. You’ve done the inner work.
So why does it still feel like you’re circling the same mountain?



In this episode, we’re talking about why your patterns keep repeating, even when you know better.
Because growth alone doesn]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="">You’ve healed. You’ve journaled. You’ve done the inner work.
So why does it still feel like you’re circling the same mountain?</p>



<p class="">In this episode, we’re talking about <strong>why your patterns keep repeating</strong>, even when you <em>know better</em>.
Because growth alone doesn’t break the cycle—<strong>structure does</strong>.</p>



<p class="">We’ll dive into:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The real reason you default to old habits (even when you’ve outgrown them)</li>



<li class="">How your nervous system, beliefs, and emotional memory keep pulling you back</li>



<li class="">What your schedule, space, and daily choices say about who you believe you are</li>



<li class="">The role of structure, identity, and support in rewiring your patterns—for good
</li>
</ul>



<p class="">And I’m sharing a personal story that opened my eyes to the subtle ways I was still living from my old self…</p>



<p class="">Even after I had claimed my freedom.</p>



<p class="">This is the episode that will <strong>connect your healing to your habits</strong>—so you can stop just surviving transformation and actually start living it.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Key Takeaways:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Healing without structure is a setup for relapse</li>



<li class="">Awareness won’t override a system built to survive your past</li>



<li class="">You don’t need more effort—you need more access: to God, to your truth, to strategy that supports your evolution</li>



<li class="">You can’t build your future from habits that belong to your past
</li>
</ul>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Mentioned in this Episode:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Bob Proctor: “The subconscious doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined—it only knows what’s repeated.”
</li>



<li class="">Maxwell Maltz: “You cannot consistently perform in a way that’s inconsistent with how you see yourself.”
</li>
</ul>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Weekly Affirmation:</strong></h3>



<p class=""><strong>'I break every cycle that no longer serves me. I am not just healed—I am rewired. I am creating something new.'</strong></p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Your Next Step:</strong></h3>



<p class="">If this episode called you out—and called you forward—<strong>Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call</strong>.
We’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck and get clear on what your soul is actually calling you to do next.</p>



<p class="">→ <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min" data-type="link" data-id="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">Book your Clarity Call now</a></p>



<p class="">And don’t forget to grab your <strong>HeadGame Wraps</strong> at<a href="http://headgameworkshop.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com
</a>Because to change anything about your life, you’ve got to get your head in the game first.</p>





<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Stay Connected:</strong></h3>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Subscribe and leave a review if this episode moved you</li>



<li class="">Share it with another woman who’s ready to rise</li>



<li class="">Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/your_goal_digger/" data-type="link" data-id="https://www.instagram.com/your_goal_digger/">@your_goal_digger</a> on IG for more truths, tools, and next-level conversations</li>
</ul>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Chapters</strong></h3>



<p class="">00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Familiarity</p>



<p class="">08:15 Understanding Subconscious Patterns</p>



<p class="">14:15 Steps to Break the Cycle</p>



<p class="">18:09 The Power of Structure and Support</p>



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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’ve healed. You’ve journaled. You’ve done the inner work.
So why does it still feel like you’re circling the same mountain?



In this episode, we’re talking about why your patterns keep repeating, even when you know better.
Because growth alone doesn’t break the cycle—structure does.



We’ll dive into:




The real reason you default to old habits (even when you’ve outgrown them)



How your nervous system, beliefs, and emotional memory keep pulling you back



What your schedule, space, and daily choices say about who you believe you are



The role of structure, identity, and support in rewiring your patterns—for good





And I’m sharing a personal story that opened my eyes to the subtle ways I was still living from my old self…



Even after I had claimed my freedom.



This is the episode that will connect your healing to your habits—so you can stop just surviving transformation and actually start living it.





Key Takeaways:




Healing without structure is a setup for relapse



Awareness won’t override a system built to survive your past



You don’t need more effort—you need more access: to God, to your truth, to strategy that supports your evolution



You can’t build your future from habits that belong to your past







Mentioned in this Episode:




Bob Proctor: “The subconscious doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined—it only knows what’s repeated.”




Maxwell Maltz: “You cannot consistently perform in a way that’s inconsistent with how you see yourself.”







Weekly Affirmation:



'I break every cycle that no longer serves me. I am not just healed—I am rewired. I am creating something new.'





Your Next Step:



If this episode called you out—and called you forward—Book your Soul Goals Clarity Call.
We’ll uncover what’s keeping you stuck and get clear on what your soul is actually calling you to do next.



→ Book your Clarity Call now



And don’t forget to grab your HeadGame Wraps at headgamewraps.etsy.com
Because to change anything about your life, you’ve got to get your head in the game first.





Stay Connected:




Subscribe and leave a review if this episode moved you



Share it with another woman who’s ready to rise



Follow @your_goal_digger on IG for more truths, tools, and next-level conversations




Chapters



00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Familiarity



08:15 Understanding Subconscious Patterns



14:15 Steps to Break the Cycle



18:09 The Power of Structure and Support]]></itunes:summary>
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	<title>Episode #7: Walking In Your Truth When the World Expects the Old You</title>
	<link>https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/podcast/episode-7-walking-in-your-truth-when-the-world-expects-the-old-you/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-7-walking-in-your-truth-when-the-world-expects-the-old-you</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2025 00:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shamika Brown-Upshaw]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">Let me ask you something real: What do you do when you’ve finally figured out who you are—finally gotten aligned—and now the people closest to you are still responding to the version of you that no longer exists?</p>



<p class="">This one is for the woman who’s had the audacity to evolve—and is now feeling the pressure of everyone wanting her to go back to who she <em>was</em>.</p>



<p class="">In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth</em>, Shamika Brown-Upshaw gets real about what it means to walk in your truth when the people around you are still relating to the old you. From personal stories to psychological principles and Biblical truth, this episode breaks down how to stay grounded when your growth feels like a threat to others. This is where your transformation gets tested—not because you’re weak, but because you’re strong enough to change.</p>



<p class="">If you’re in that sacred and dangerous space between who you were and who you’re becoming—this is your episode.</p>



<p class=""><strong>What You’ll Learn:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Why your growth can feel like rejection to others</li>



<li class="">The psychology behind resistance from loved ones</li>



<li class="">The spiritual, emotional, and neurological truths about identity shifts</li>



<li class="">Practical steps to stay in alignment when you’re being pulled back</li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>Key Affirmation:</strong><strong>
</strong> "I trust who I’ve become. I honor this healed version of me. I protect her peace, her power, and her path. I am no longer available for roles that require me to forget who I am. And I will not shrink her to fit old expectations no matter who wants me to. She is not up for negotiation."</p>



<p class=""><em>Takeaways</em></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><em>You've done the work, but the world may not be ready.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>Alignment is about honesty, not perfection.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>Your growth can make others uncomfortable.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>You are not responsible for others' discomfort with your growth.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>The pull of the familiar can be strong.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>Your boundaries highlight others' lack of them.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>Transformation confronts everything built around who you were.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>You don't need to be the version of yourself that people remember.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>Awareness is your anchor in maintaining alignment.</em></li>



<li class=""><em>Speak life over yourself every day.</em></li>
</ul>



<p class=""><em>Chapters</em></p>



<p class=""><em>00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery</em></p>



<p class=""><em>02:54 Understanding Alignment and Its Challenges</em></p>



<p class=""><em>06:13 The Impact of Change on Relationships</em></p>



<p class=""><em>11:13 Psychology of Growth and Resistance</em></p>



<p class=""><em>15:57 Practical Steps for Staying Aligned</em></p>



<p class=""><em>20:11 Affirmations and Moving Forward</em></p>



<p class=""><strong>Ready to Go Deeper?</strong><strong>
</strong><strong>If you’re done with </strong><strong><em>the tug-of-war between the old and new you—let’s talk.</em></strong></p>



<p class=""><strong>Book a Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call with me.</strong><strong>
</strong>Let’s uncover what’s blocking your alignment and create a plan to walk fully in your purpose.</p>



<p class=""><strong>A Soul Goal is not just a dream—it’s a divine assignment.</strong><strong>
</strong>The vision God placed in your heart before the world told you to shrink.</p>







<p class=""><strong>Sponsor Spotlight:</strong><strong>
</strong>This episode is sponsored by <strong>Head Game Wraps</strong>—because if you want to change anything about your life, you have to get your head in the game first.
Visit<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com</a> ]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Let me ask you something real: What do you do when you’ve finally figured out who you are—finally gotten aligned—and now the people closest to you are still responding to the version of you that no longer exists?



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	<title>Episode #6: The World Is Not Broken—We Are!</title>
	<link>https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/podcast/episode-6-the-world-is-not-broken-we-are/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-6-the-world-is-not-broken-we-are</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2025 00:33:54 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shamika Brown-Upshaw]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><em>What if the chaos we see in the world isn’t just “out there”—but a direct reflection of what’s happening inside us?</em></p>



<p class=""><em>In this powerful episode, </em>Shamika Brown-Upshaw explores the chaos in the world as a reflection of our inner turmoil. She emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and emotional maturity in addressing societal issues. Shamika encourages listeners to shift their focus from external factors to internal healing, highlighting that true transformation begins within. The episode concludes with practical steps for listeners to initiate change in their lives, advocating for self-leadership and emotional ownership.</p>



<p class=""><em>This episode isn’t about taking sides. It’s about taking responsibility. Because the world won’t change until we do.</em></p>



<p class=""><strong><em>Inside This Episode:</em></strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class=""><em>Why political chaos reflects personal dysfunction</em></li>



<li class=""><em>The truth about hate, division, and the “us vs. them” mindset</em></li>



<li class=""><em>The neuroscience behind personal transformation</em></li>



<li class=""><em>Three soul-level steps to disrupt chaos and embody peace</em></li>



<li class=""><em>How you become a catalyst for global change—without burning out</em></li>
</ul>



<p class="">Takeaways:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The chaos in the world reflects our inner chaos.</li>



<li class="">Transformation begins with understanding ourselves.</li>



<li class="">We must take personal responsibility for our emotions.</li>



<li class="">Emotional maturity is essential for societal healing.</li>



<li class="">Real change starts from within, not from external sources.</li>



<li class="">Our thoughts and feelings shape our reality.</li>



<li class="">Forgiveness is crucial for personal peace.</li>



<li class="">Practicing gratitude can reset our emotional state.</li>



<li class="">Self-leadership is foundational for leading others.</li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong><em>Key Scriptures:
</em></strong><em> “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2
 “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” — Proverbs 23:7</em></p>



<p class=""><strong><em>Affirmation:
</em></strong><em>"I am no longer reacting to the world—I am transforming it by transforming me.”</em></p>



<p class=""><strong><em>Tired of second-guessing your next move?
</em></strong><em>Book your </em><strong><em>Complimentary </em><a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"><em>Soul Goals Clarity Call</em></a></strong><em><a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"> </a>and get clear on what alignment really looks like in this season of your life.</em></p>



<p class=""><strong>Sponsor Spotlight:
</strong>This episode is sponsored by <strong>Head Game Wraps</strong>—because if you want to change anything about your life, you have to get your head in the game first.
Visit<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com</a> to shop the wrap that matches your purpose.</p>]]></description>
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	<title>Episode #5: The Soul Beneath the Story: Who Are You Without the Mask?</title>
	<link>https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/podcast/episode-5-the-soul-beneath-the-story-who-are-you-without-the-mask/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-5-the-soul-beneath-the-story-who-are-you-without-the-mask</link>
	<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2025 23:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shamika Brown-Upshaw]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""> We’ve been doing the deep work—shedding fear, breaking patterns, and calling out the lies. But once you’ve let go…what’s left?</p>



<p class=""><em>This episode is the answer.</em></p>



<p class="">Today, Shamika invites you into the next layer of the journey—<em>the return.</em> Not to your job. Not to your titles. But to the truth of who you’ve always been.</p>



<p class="">From neuroscience-backed mindset shifts to biblical truth and a powerful personal story, this episode reminds you: you were never meant to become someone new—you were always meant to <strong>come home to yourself</strong>.</p>



<p class="">Because the more connected you are to your soul, the more powerfully you can create—and not from hustle, but from truth.</p>



<p class=""><strong>What You’ll Hear in This Episode:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The real reason your striving still doesn’t feel like enough</li>



<li class="">We spend our lives trying to become more, but we should focus on revealing our true selves.</li>



<li class="">The breakthrough lies in shedding what no longer serves us.</li>



<li class="">Your soul is the source of your success, not your titles or achievements.</li>



<li class="">Aligning with your true self leads to a fulfilling life.</li>



<li class="">Your thoughts and beliefs shape your reality.</li>



<li class="">Discomfort in self-discovery is a sign of awakening.</li>



<li class="">Honor the version of yourself before societal conditioning.</li>



<li class="">Alignment requires honesty, stillness, and surrender.</li>



<li class="">Taking small actions towards your truth creates significant change.</li>



<li class="">Affirmations can reshape your self-perception and reality.</li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>Affirmation of the Week:</strong><strong>
</strong> “I am not who the world told me to be. I am who God created me to be. Whole. Worthy. Already enough. And I choose to live from that truth.”</p>



<p class="">Say it. Write it. Live like it’s already true.</p>



<p class="">Chapters</p>



<p class="">00:00 Unmasking Your True Self</p>



<p class="">03:51 The Journey of Shedding and Remembering</p>



<p class="">07:54 Reconnecting with Your Essence</p>



<p class="">12:15 The Power of Alignment and Truth</p>



<p class="">16:57 Taking Action Towards Your Soul Goals</p>





<p class=""><strong>Ready to Go Deeper?
If you’re done with the masks, the performance, and you’re ready to finally live from your soul?</strong> <strong>Book a Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call with me.</strong> Let’s uncover what’s blocking your alignment and create a plan to walk fully in your purpose.</p>



<p class=""><strong>A Soul Goal is not just a dream—it’s a divine assignment.
</strong>The vision God placed in your heart before the world told you to shrink.</p>







<p class=""><strong>Sponsor Spotlight:
</strong>This episode is sponsored by <strong>Head Game Wraps</strong>—because if you want to change anything about your life, you have to get your head in the game first.
Visit<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com</a> to shop the wrap that matches your purpose.</p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[ We’ve been doing the deep work—shedding fear, breaking patterns, and calling out the lies. But once you’ve let go…what’s left?



This episode is the answer.



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	<title>Episode #4: Fear is a Liar – STOP LETTING IT MAKE YOUR DECISIONS!</title>
	<link>https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/podcast/episode-4-fear-is-a-liar-stop-letting-it-make-your-decisions/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-4-fear-is-a-liar-stop-letting-it-make-your-decisions</link>
	<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 23:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shamika Brown-Upshaw]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>Let’s be real—fear has been running your life long enough.</strong><strong>
</strong> You call it timing. Strategy. “Being smart.”
But deep down, you know the truth:
You’ve been stalling. Shrinking. Playing it safe.</p>



<p class="">This episode? It’s your wake-up call.</p>



<p class="">If you’ve ever said:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">“I’m just waiting for the right moment…”</li>



<li class="">“What if I fail?”</li>



<li class="">“She’s already doing it—who would listen to me?”</li>



<li class="">“I’ll go for it once I feel ready…”</li>
</ul>



<p class="">…then fear is calling the shots.
But it doesn’t have to anymore.</p>



<p class="">Inside this power-packed episode, Shamika pulls the mask off fear—exposing how it shows up in your mindset, your habits, and even your so-called logic. You’ll learn how to move despite fear, rewire your nervous system for courage, and finally make the decisions your next level is begging for.</p>



<p class=""><strong>And the story she shares? It’s one decision that changed everything.</strong><strong>
</strong> Her career. Her marriage. Her family. Her legacy.
All of it—on the other side of a “yes” she almost didn’t say.</p>



<p class="">✨ <em>This episode will call you higher—and challenge every excuse you’ve been making to stay stuck.</em></p>



<p class="">Takeaways</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Fear runs the show for way too many of us.</li>



<li class="">Fear will always be present, but it has no voice unless you hand it the mic.</li>



<li class="">Procrastination is fear pretending to be strategy.</li>



<li class="">Courage isn't the absence of fear, it's moving despite of it.</li>



<li class="">Your next chapter might be hiding behind fear.</li>



<li class="">Awareness is powerful, but it's not enough; action is required.</li>



<li class="">Fear loves to keep you stuck in thinking mode.</li>



<li class="">You have no idea what's waiting for you on the other side of your yes.</li>



<li class="">Gratitude can disrupt fear and shift your energy.</li>



<li class="">The power you're looking for is already in you.</li>
</ul>



<p class="">Chapters</p>



<p class="">00:00 Introduction to Fear and Its Impact</p>



<p class="">05:32 Understanding the Disguises of Fear</p>



<p class="">11:14 Recognizing Fear's Role in Growth</p>



<p class="">16:41 Personal Story: Overcoming Fear in Career Decisions</p>



<p class="">23:51 The Power of Decision Over Fear</p>



<p class="">29:41 Actionable Strategies to Combat Fear</p>



<p class=""><strong>Affirmation of the Week:</strong><strong>
</strong> “I see the fear. I feel the fear. But I will not follow the fear. My next level requires courage, because I refuse to let comfort kill my calling.”</p>



<p class=""><strong>Links</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Book A <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"><strong>Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call</strong></a> and finally get clear on what’s holding you back—so you can stop spinning your wheels and start moving in the direction you <em>know</em> you’re meant to go. <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min</a></li>



<li class=""><strong>Head Game Wraps</strong> — because you’ve got to get your mind (and your crown) right:<a href="https://headgamewraps.etsy.com"> headgamewraps.etsy.com</a></li>
</ul>



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	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Let’s be real—fear has been running your life long enough.
 You call it timing. Strategy. “Being smart.”
But deep down, you know the truth:
You’ve been stalling. Shrinking. Playing it safe.



This episode? It’s your wake-up call.



If you’ve ever said:]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<title>Episode #3: The Receipts Never Lie – Your Life is Proof of What You Believe!</title>
	<link>https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/podcast/episode-3-the-receipts-never-lie-your-life-is-proof-of-what-you-believe/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-3-the-receipts-never-lie-your-life-is-proof-of-what-you-believe</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2025 03:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">You say you believe for more.
You say you want better.
But does your life actually reflect that?</p>



<p class="">In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth!</em>, we’re not guessing anymore—we’re auditing. Because your results? They don’t lie. They are the clearest mirror of your subconscious beliefs. If Episode 2 cracked something open, this one is about accountability. Radical, uncomfortable, soul-aligning accountability.</p>



<p class="">We’re breaking down:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The <strong>real reason</strong> your life looks the way it does</li>



<li class="">How <strong>your self-image and belief system</strong> shape your results</li>



<li class="">The <strong>Reticular Activating System</strong> and how your brain filters reality</li>



<li class="">Why you keep repeating patterns—even when you say you want change</li>
</ul>



<p class="">With wisdom from mindset pioneers like <strong>Dr. Maxwell Maltz</strong> and <strong>Bob Proctor</strong>, and a powerful personal story of surrender on Shamika’s own front porch, this episode delivers both the truth and the tools to shift what’s been keeping you stuck.</p>



<p class="">Because once you <em>see</em> the pattern? You can choose something new.</p>





<p class=""><strong>What You’ll Learn in This Episode:</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Why your current results are the “receipts” of your belief system</li>



<li class="">The five key areas of your life you MUST audit if you want change</li>



<li class="">How early childhood programming + RAS affect your reality</li>



<li class="">What it looks like to move from inherited beliefs to chosen truth</li>



<li class="">How to create identity-level transformation that sticks</li>



<li class="">The exact questions to ask when you’re ready to rewire your mindset</li>
</ul>





<p class=""><strong>Quotes to Remember:</strong></p>




<p class="">“Results don’t lie. They’re the cold, hard receipts of your beliefs.”
“You can’t break a cycle you’re not willing to acknowledge.”
“Your life isn’t waiting on perfection—it’s waiting on honesty.”</p>






<p class=""><strong>Ready to go deeper?</strong>
If you’re tired of saying the right things but seeing the same results—book your <strong><a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">Soul Goals Clarity Call</a></strong>. We’ll uncover the beliefs holding you back, challenge the stories you’ve inherited, and create a plan that aligns with who you are. <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min</a></p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You say you believe for more.
You say you want better.
But does your life actually reflect that?



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	<title>Episode #2: What is the MF’ing Truth vs. YOUR Truth?</title>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2025 00:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class=""><strong>You’ve been calling it “your truth”... but what if it’s just a comfortable lie?</strong></p>



<p class="">In this episode of <em>Tell Your Truth!</em>, we’re cutting through the noise and getting all the way real. Because there’s a difference between <strong>honesty</strong> and <strong>truth</strong>—and if you’ve been living by stories shaped by fear, rejection, or survival… you might be honest, but you’re not free.</p>



<p class="">We’re breaking down:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">The <strong>difference between the truth and your truth</strong> (yes, there is one)</li>



<li class="">Why your “truth” might be what’s keeping you stuck</li>



<li class="">How your earliest beliefs and lived experiences are shaping your current patterns</li>



<li class="">The story I told myself for decades—and the moment that finally revealed it</li>
</ul>



<p class="">And listen—this one’s personal. I’m sharing a story that takes you all the way back to 5-year-old Shamika and the lie I didn’t even know I was living. Because that’s what happens when you never question the belief... you start calling it <em>reality.</em></p>



<p class="">By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, powerful process to: ✔ Identify the beliefs that have been silently shaping your life
✔ Challenge the stories that no longer serve you
✔ Replace the lie with a truth that actually moves you forward</p>



<p class=""><strong>If you’re ready to stop letting the past write your future, hit play.</strong></p>



<p class="">And if this episode hits home for you?
<strong>Book your <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">Soul Goals Clarity Call</a></strong>—and finally get clear on what’s holding you back—so you can stop spinning your wheels and start moving in the direction you <em>know</em> you’re meant to go. <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min</a></p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You’ve been calling it “your truth”... but what if it’s just a comfortable lie?



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	<title>Episode #1: Welcome to Tell Your Truth!</title>
	<link>https://shamikabrownupshaw.com/podcast/episode-1-welcome-to-tell-your-truth/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=episode-1-welcome-to-tell-your-truth</link>
	<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p class="">In the inaugural episode of the Tell Your Truth podcast, host Shamika Brown-Upshaw shares her journey of self-discovery and the importance of embracing one's truth. She discusses the challenges of navigating societal expectations, the fear of change, and the need for honesty in personal growth. The podcast aims to empower listeners, particularly women, to break free from limiting beliefs and create a life aligned with their true selves. Shamika emphasizes the significance of clarity, self-love, and taking bold actions towards one's goals, while also introducing the concept of 'soul goals' as a guiding principle for transformation.</p>



<p class=""><strong>Takeaways</strong></p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li class="">Awakening to your truth is essential for real change.</li>



<li class="">Self-love is the foundation for personal growth.</li>



<li class="">Many people feel stuck due to societal expectations.</li>



<li class="">Fear often masquerades as being 'stuck'.</li>



<li class="">This podcast challenges listeners to step out of their comfort zones.</li>



<li class="">Women are encouraged to own their truth and power.</li>



<li class="">Abundance and joy are attainable for everyone.</li>



<li class="">Understanding the difference between truth and personal narratives is vital.</li>



<li class="">Affirmations can significantly impact one's life.</li>
</ul>



<p class=""><strong>Chapters</strong></p>



<p class="">00:00 Welcome to Tell Your Truth Podcast</p>



<p class="">02:11 Awakening to Your Truth</p>



<p class="">03:30 Breaking Free from Societal Expectations</p>



<p class="">06:52 What Can You Expect?</p>



<p class="">08:50 Empowering Women to Own Their Truth</p>



<p class="">10:47 Laying the Foundation for Change</p>



<p class="">12:15 The Soul Goal Clarity Call</p>



<p class="">14:08 Affirmation for Transformation</p>



<p class=""></p>



<p class="">Book A <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min"><strong>Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call</strong></a> and finally get clear on what’s holding you back—so you can stop self-doubting and start moving in the direction you <em>know</em> you’re meant to go. <a href="https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min">https://calendly.com/sparklifeplanning/30min</a></p>



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	<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2025 03:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[<p>This is Tell Your Truth!—the podcast where we stop sugarcoating, stop hiding, and start owning the role we play in creating our own lives.</p><p>I am your host, Shamika Brown-Upshaw—Emmy-Award-winning Business Operations &amp; Program Management Director turned Spiritual Mindset &amp; Business Coach and founder of Spark Life Coaching &amp; Business Planning. And let me say this upfront: Your truth isn’t just in what you say—it’s in the results you’re producing, the energy you’re carrying, and the reality you’re living. </p><p>It’s in the money you make (or don’t), the relationships you build (or burn), and the risks you take (or talk yourself out of). You see…</p><ul><li>Your life is proof of what you believe—whether you admit it or not.</li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Your results do not lie. </li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">They are the receipts of your mindset, your habits, and your choices.</li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">And if you keep ignoring the truth in front of you, you will keep rewriting the same chapter instead of turning the page.</li></ul><p>So if you’re tired of spinning your wheels, tired of saying you want more but never making a move, tired of playing small when you know you are meant for more…</p><p>Welcome home.</p><p>Every week, we’re going beyond the surface—calling out the lies we tell ourselves, releasing the patterns that no longer serve us, and shifting you into alignment with the life you actually want to live.  </p><p>Because the truth? </p><p>The truth will set you free—but only if you stop running from it.</p><p>This is Tell Your Truth! </p>]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[This is Tell Your Truth!—the podcast where we stop sugarcoating, stop hiding, and start owning the role we play in creating our own lives.I am your host, Shamika Brown-Upshaw—Emmy-Award-winning Business Operations &amp; Program Management Director turned]]></itunes:subtitle>
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